Your privacy is sacred
We understand that dating is deeply personal. Here's exactly how we protect your data and your date's privacy.
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Visit Trust CenterAll transcripts: deleted
After insights are generated, everyone’s transcripts are permanently deleted.
All audio: deleted
Once insights are generated, all audio files are permanently deleted for everyone.
Your insights: yours alone
Your insights are never shared with your date or anyone else. Only you see them.
Delete anytime
One tap removes all your data. No questions asked.
Never sold
We will never sell your data to third parties. Our business model is subscriptions, not your information.
How it works
Both people opt in
The date doesn't activate in reflection mode unless both people confirm. No surprises.
Audio transcribed
The audio is securely transcribed so we can analyze the conversation.
You identify your voice
After the date, you spend about 30 seconds helping us identify which voice is yours in the conversation.
Insights generated
Our AI analyzes the conversation and generates personalized insights about what actually happened and where things stand.
Raw data deleted
Once insights are ready, all audio and all transcripts are deleted permanently for everyone. Only each person's personal takeaways remain.
Frequently asked questions
Does my date have to participate?
Yes. Save the Date is a mutual reflection system. It only works when both people opt in. That’s what makes it safe.
What happens to my date’s words?
After insights are generated, all audio and transcripts are permanently deleted from our system. Only each person’s private takeaways remain.
Can my date see my insights?
No. You each get your own private insights. You never see theirs, they never see yours.
What if I want to delete everything?
One tap removes all your data: insights, history, everything. Permanently gone, no questions asked.
Want more detail?
Our Trust Center has in-depth technical information about our upload flow, deletion process, encryption, access controls, AI processing, and every third party we use.
Questions about privacy?
We're happy to answer any questions about how we handle your data.
privacy@getsavethedate.com